Danielle. Nearing 21.
I am the textbook definition for a Pisces <3 All I can do is love and feel and help.
New York Raised. Pansexual People Lover.
Very interested in astrology and holistic medicine.
I would consider myself a "wide-eyed wonderer" because I love to learn.
Bodies are hairy. No matter the gender, your face will have hair and that is more than okay.
Your butthole is going to have some hair too. And maybe your nipples. And your tummy. And where ever else.
Stretch marks. Those are a thing. Everyone gets ‘em. If you don’t, you probably don’t have skin.
Vaginas smell. Every vagina has a scent. Don’t worry about it! (Unless something seems wrong, then go get it checked out! No need to feel embarrassed or ashamed.)
Vaginas come in all different shapes, sizes, colors, flavors. All are beautiful.
Penises come in all different shapes, sizes, colors, flavors. All are beautiful.
You don’t need to shave anything if you don’t want to. It’s tooootally not mandatory.
Sometimes people get butt acne.
You can have a vagina and want short hair and think dresses are just the worst.
You can have a penis and want long hair and think dresses are just the best.
You can wear whatever you want and style your hair however you want.
You can even think whatever the hell you want.
People might tell you that you are a girl because you have a vagina. People might tell you that you are a boy because you have a penis. People will tell you what your gender is. But in reality, you don’t have to be that gender. You don’t have to be either of those genders.
You are what you are and it’s just the worst thing if you try and hide that.
I don’t know if it’s normal to think this way. I feel like I have given a lot of different people a part of myself that I won’t get back. I hold onto those people just because I know they have that part of me and I don’t want to lose it. How many people do you invest your feelings in before you lose yourself completely though? What if I lose another person whom I have invested most of myself in? Will I be lost? It’s difficult to say what will happen but I’m afraid that I will lose myself. I believe there is paradox to it all though. Maybe there is that one person who will make you feel so much like yourself that you won’t remember what you lost and they’ll remind you of whom you really are.